A new kind of relationship app

Some friendships
slip away quietly.
Pollen makes sure
they don't.

We're more connected than ever — and lonelier than ever. Pollen is the background OS for your most important relationships. Warm nudges, deep memory, zero pressure.

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pollen
May 5
Your garden is
flourishing
A good week to reach out to Marcus
He was job hunting last time you spoke
Priya
Jess
Sam
Alex
Marcus
garden
list
plans
you
"

The quality of your relationships is the single greatest predictor of how long you live — more than diet, more than exercise. And yet nobody built anything to help.

The problem

We were promised
connection. We got
performance.

Younger generations are the loneliest in recorded history. Not because we care less — but because nothing helps us care well. The tools we have either ask too much of us or too little.

Too much
Instagram shows you everyone's highlight reel. You feel further away, not closer.
Too little
Your contacts app just sits there. Static. Blind. It doesn't even know who matters to you.
The gap
Nobody teaches us how to maintain friendships. They just quietly fade, and we feel it.
How it works

Your garden, tended.

01
Tell us about your people
A 60-second voice note about the people who matter most. No forms, no lists. Just talk — Pollen listens and builds your garden from your own words.
02
Watch your garden come alive
Each friendship becomes a living shape — its size reflecting depth, its color reflecting health. Not how often you text. How much it means.
03
Let Pollen nudge you
At the right moment, a quiet suggestion. Not "you haven't texted in 3 weeks" — but "he was job hunting last time you spoke." Context. Warmth. Nothing more.
What's inside

Built for how
friendship actually works.

🌱
The living garden
A 3D map of your closest relationships — breathing, floating, alive. Each person's blob reflects the depth and health of your bond, not the date of your last text.
🎙️
Voice-first logging
Log an interaction in 10 seconds while walking back to your car. "Just got coffee with Maya, she's going through a lot." Pollen captures the context, not the timestamp.
✨
Nudges that feel human
Warm, specific, never naggy. Pollen knows what's going on in your friends' lives — and surfaces the right moment to show up, not just a reminder that time has passed.
📖
A relationship memory
Every conversation, every life event, every shared moment — quietly collected over time into a living picture of each friendship. It gets richer the more you share.

Your garden is
waiting to flourish.